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Nicole was exhausted. She had no idea how much energy giving birth and nursing a new born could be. She would drift in and out of
The laundry piled up, the dishes (and she didn't even know where they came from) were overflowing in the sink, she couldn't remember the last time she took a shower or even ate a decent meal.
Nick walked in the door one night about three weeks after Bruce was born and found his wife and son curled up on the only clean spot available - the corner of the room. He gently knelt on the floor next to her and said, "Honey, you can't sleep on the floor."
Bleary eyed she looked up at him and whimpered, "I couldn't find another spot."
"Let me take care of that," he gently prodded. "I'll watch Bruce; you go take a hot bath."
Forty five minutes later she emerged feeling much better. She was still exhausted, but she was clean and relaxed. The first thing she noticed was that Nick had changed the sheets on their bed and taken her overflowing hamper out of the room. She wandered down the hall and heard water running in the kitchen and sound of dishes clanging. He had managed to make a minor dent in the pile of dishes and was softly humming to the baby.
"Why did it take me falling asleep on the floor to get you to help?" She asked.
"Because I'm a dummy and should have pitched in as soon as I saw you getting behind. I won't let that happen again."
The little family soon got
into a nice routine. Up at six, naps at nine, lunch at noon, park at one, nap
at three, dinner at six, bed at eight. Well at least that was the goal for the
day. There were many times the little man of the house did not cooperate as
well as days when the big man of the day was not present. For Nicole it was the
perfect balance. And then Bruce turned six months old and all things changed.
He no longer slept for a morning nap; screamed on the walk to the park and
refused to eat dinner. Rather than
getting upset Nicole just adjusted the schedule around Bruce, not around Nick.
Bruce was a quick learner. He
was crawling by seven months and walking at ten. Nick was not home to see his
first steps as he was again away on a business trip.
Nicole noticed that as soon
as she got a grip on motherhood and the chores and her new role in life that
Nick went back to traveling every other week. Although she knew he had been
promoted and now had a larger area that encompassed Nebraska, Kansas, and
Northern Texas; she did not anticipate the traveling that was involved. Most of
the time when he was on the road they did not even talk as their schedules were
so different. He had business meetings during the day and dinner meetings every
night. She couldn’t even remember the last time she’d gone out to dinner.
Bruce’s first birthday was
coming and Nicole wanted to plan a nice party or family and friends. Her parents
were coming, as well as some of the neighbors. Nick did not have any family.
His parents had died some years before Nicole met him and he had been an only
child. The party was planned for a Sunday afternoon in a park near the lake. On
the Friday before the party Nick was in Texas and a freak thunder storm hit.
His plane was grounded. Saturday morning came and the damage to the small airport
he was flying out of was so great from the storm that all flights had been
cancelled until Monday. He called home and gave Nicole the bad news.
“Nicholas, rent a car, go to
a different airport, I don’t care what you do but you are not going to miss
your son’s first birthday; especially since you missed his birth!”
Trouble brewing. It is extremely difficult to sustain a relationship, especially a young one when there is so much time spent apart and when the young wife is tasked with keeping the home and family going while the husband is away. I am curious to see how badly Nick wants to be home for his son's birthday. Another hard thing about this living situation... when he finally does get time at home she wants to at last go out and do things, and all he wants to be is at home away from all of that. It doesn't bode well for their marriage. I find myself wondering about all those business trips, are they really all work and no play? Did they discuss the amount of travel before he accepted the position?
ReplyDeleteI'd say he had better find a way back home!
ReplyDeletehhhhhmmmm, seems Nick is really good at some little things; but not so good at the major life events. that could be a sign of something.
ReplyDeletegranted... he can hardly be blamed for a freak storm that shuts down the airport. Still, I question why any man would want to be away from his family so so much. And, as I know the "wife/mom stuck at home who never gets to go out and do things" role: trouble ahead.