Actually I'm not going to talk about coffee at all! I am going to join Les at Ink Interrupted where she hosts Coffee Chat
Today's Topic - What is your favorite confidence builder.
Now - I have to say that I normally shy away from topics I have no clue what the answers are - but I am trying to challenge myself these days.
Confidence - that is tough subject. When you are a person who listens to what other people think it is a shatterable film. As I age I care less and less what people think of me and try very hard to think in the positive and move one foot in front of the other. I have never really thought of myself as a beautiful person, therefore confidence for me does not come from the way I look or dress. This might sound rather strange but when I set out to do a task - even clean the house - and I complete it - that gives me confidence.
I have a history of 'giving up' on things - or rather I believe I have given up on things - So that now I think when I actually finish something it builds up more confidence.
The actual definition of confidence is:
I don't believe that I don't believe in myself - but there are times when that belief is in doubt!
Now it is time to go get that cup of coffee.... all this brain wracking has made me thirsty!